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Are you home, and still living out of a suitcase?
#Housing, #Practical Re-entry, #Settling In Four months back in the country, and the suitcase is still open on the bedroom floor. Not out of laziness — because nobody in the family is quite sure yet where the clothes are supposed to go. Housing is the least romantic and most destabilizing part of coming home. Most sending organizations do not have long-term housing for returning workers, so families land in a spare bedroom, a borrowed apartment, or a church member's basement.
kenrgroat
2 days ago2 min read
Everyone's in a hurry, and you can't keep up
#Pace of Life • #Reverse Culture Shock • #Settling In — Return Again Inc. The checkout line moves fast. The cars move faster. Everyone seems to be rushing toward something, calendars full, conversations clipped — and you're standing in the middle of it feeling like the only person moving at half speed. When did life get so hurried? The frantic pace of life back home is one of the most jarring parts of re-entry. On the field, you may have lived by relationships and rhythms rat
kenrgroat
Aug 271 min read
The doctor wants you to book it through an app
#Practical Re-entry • #Healthcare • #Settling In — Return Again Inc. You just need a check-up. But first there's an online portal, a patient app, insurance questions you don't understand, a text-message reminder system, and a form that assumes you've had an address here all along. All you wanted was to see a doctor. Re-entering the American healthcare system is one of the most practical and most bewildering parts of coming home. After years of different systems — or of simply
kenrgroat
Aug 121 min read
You froze in the toothpaste aisle
#Decision Fatigue, #Reverse Culture Shock, #Settling In You went in for one thing — toothpaste. Twenty minutes later you walked out with nothing, quietly overwhelmed by a wall of forty nearly identical tubes. If that sounds familiar, welcome to one of the least-expected parts of coming home: decision fatigue. On the field, life often ran on fewer options and clearer rhythms. Back in the States, ordinary errands turn into a barrage of micro-decisions — which brand, which size,
kenrgroat
Jul 291 min read
The First 90 Days: A Survival Guide for Coming Home
#Practical Re-entry, #First 90 Days, #Settling In The plane lands, the hugs happen, and then real life begins — and it can hit like a wave. A driver's license to renew. A phone plan to set up. A car to find. Insurance, banking, doctors, and a grocery store with forty-seven kinds of salad dressing. After years overseas, the sheer logistics of American life can leave even the most capable worker feeling paralyzed. If that's the season you're in, here's the reassuring news: the
kenrgroat
Jun 252 min read
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